I do like this corner of the BL community. Most, if not all, of the people who founded cblf are no longer posters here but we do have some posters who have been around almost since it was founded. You can read those posts in the Archives area.

You have already revealed your location (at BC) and now you admit that in 2000 you were in college. You have already given away waay too much personal information. Make a new nick and never use this one again and do not give away such personal information unless you are trying to out yourself.

Why do you say you are out cruising for gay areas? This is 2010, it is easy. There are gar areas in most decent sized cities. Any decent search engine can find you something. If you have time to make a post at two different BL boards you probably have tiume for a short google search.

Gs