Being significantly outish in my community people watch me around kids.

I'm pretty trusted for the most part and everyone is reasonably comfortable.

But I have a rule of never being alone with kids.

I don't do this to avoid temptation. I do it to avoid accusation. It has always worked for me.

I also tend to stick to using the internet only on puters in public places or in public view so that I don't get tempted to look at stuff that could get me in trouble.

Blessings
Cat.