But I did make it a point to restrain my YF on all matters of sexual talk.

This brings up something that has been on my mind: Do others talk about sexual matters with YFs?

I do.

I see my role in his life as being that of a mentor. And, obviously, being in his teens, sexuality is a huge topic on his mind. I almost feel it is my duty to be there for him and be available to talk through whatever is on his mind. He's not going to feel comfortable talking with his parents about such topics -- I know I wasn't -- and who knows what sort of information he'd end up getting from peers. In that sense, I may be the best resource he has for getting Godly advice related to sexuality.

For what it's worth, he is extremely mature emotionally, and knows to be discreet. [Though I had not planned to do so, I ended up telling him that I am, essentially, "gay" (though NOT about the BL aspect), and he took it very well. He has assured me many times that he will keep that confidential, and I believe he will.]

[Each situation is different, however, so what works in my situation may NOT be appropriate for someone else.]

Thoughts?

Blessings,
Rainboy