Expecting the best from people is a foolish way to live. However, expecting people to act out stupidly, as they almost always do, is not. Telling someone (who isn't a therapist, or a very close friend) that you basically want to have sex with children - is a very gross gamble. Sure, I could tell -you guys- I want little boys in my bed, but of course, you get it - you understand - but yeah, my point stands, you can't be to trustworthy of people - sorry, it sucks, and it's just a huge gamble you can end up paying the price for. I have one friend. One. You know why that one friend is still around? Because he's not an ass - and he doesn't make stupid choices.