Christian BoyLove Forum #62701
[...] We fear the danger of friendships going sexual, so we don't take the risk. Then we're surprised when our marriages crash and burn and our singles get caught up in sexual immorality: our couples are being forced to expect too much from their partners and our singles are emotionally isolated, so both groups go looking for those relationships in the world - with the libertine assumption there that sexual relationships are the only real relationships...
Life's a gamble: there is no safe way through it except the way that our God is calling us to - which for each of us will be a different route. For some BLs it is a really bad idea for them to have a YF. For others it won't be a problem. Some friendships are a blessing from God. Others are a snare of the enemy. We need to learn to walk GOD's way, under His guidance by the power of the Holy Spirit. No, this isn't tidy. There are no easy rules: such is the way of the law, not of grace. But it offers the prospect of 'multiplying our talents' to the glory of God in a way that closed by legalism... This is great stuff, Eldad! Blessings, Rainboy |