I was referring to a different post on a different forum.

On this other forum, I recall expressing my tendency to be staunchly opposed to doing anything illegal - even if it was the "consensual sex play" that so many BLs condone and praise - simply because it is illegal.

Someone replied to me saying "Oh, you just haven't reached that stage yet. Come back later.", indicating that being opposed to CSP was just a stage in every BL's development, before the desires overcame you and you simply had to do something illegal to avoid going insane.

My reply to ShotaLover's post was referencing this different post on this different forum, and I was empathising with

a) ShotaLover's triumph over the dangerous sexual desire that a lot of us experience, and

b) his stage in his sexual development. I was warning against what I was told was the next stage of BL development, but one which is evidently not to be found here at CBLF.

Perhaps I used the word **** too rashly, though, and I apologize.

Regards,

THP.