I pretty much stay away from boys because it feels like I'd give myself away to others if I was uninhibited when interacting with one (as paranoid as that sounds), even though I'm pretty sure no-one would notice at first. it just feels like any minute I could be accused of something or 'found out'.

I've been asked at church to 'help out' with the youth group and have had to turn them down. About half of it is 10-14 year-old boys (I know!!) and I just can't do it.

But I'm happy for you. At least one of us is getting past it.