Hello!

Welcome to CBLF! You have a girlfriend, you say. Does she know about your attractions to boys? Are you attracted to women at all?

This is quite unnecessary as I'm sure we all understand what you mean, but, I think that technically you are a pedophile if you are in fact attracted to children. But in society's eyes you are not because society automatically assumes that someone who is a pedophile has sex with kids. But by definition, one who is sexually attracted to children is a pedophile. If anyone can correct me, I will happily stand corrected. :)