if nothing else point him towards cblf and cjat where he can find Christian BL communities who will support him. It is not the same as a physical church with people you see in person but they can be very helpful for someone like him for fellowship with people like him.

I have only skimmed a bit of Eldad's post and not looked at his site. Does he say he is attracted to minors or does he just say he is a RSO? There is a big difference as a high majority of RSOs are not minor attracted.

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