One of the fact that the 'stranger danger' campaigns obscures is the reality that most sexual abuse of minors occurs within the family home. In that context it is of course meaningless to speak of it in this way.

A track which reflects the nastiness of the molester very well is 'Fiddle About' by The Who, from the Rock Opera 'Tommy'. Somewhat elderly these days, but that doesn't mean it isn't an effective piece of music.

I'm guessing that the triangular symbol referred to is the one visible in in the slightly darker blue in the background of this board; this seems to have been pushed by the BL community as ours. Didn't know it had made it to Ophray though.

As to choosing to be a Paedophile - I suppose it might be possible to train your libido to respond to younger and younger children in the same way as mine seems to have come to respond to older and older ones over the years (28 and counting). Can't say I'd recommend it though; the aggravation is extreme. AND FOR MOST OF US IT ISN'T A CHOICE - and the suggestion that it might be puts extra guilt on us, though given that we are public enemy no. 1 at the moment, I guess the difference that this confusion makes isn't going to amount to much...