I'm not sure where you think "here" is. We have members from various countries and visitors from many more. I would be surprised if you were the first Russian on this forum.

Having said that, It's not as bad as you seem to think in all Western countries. A lot of BLs just like to blame society for their own failures and inadequacies. Because of that, they tend to have a distorted world view that paints an inadequate picture of what the world they live in is really like. I've heard people paint such a picture about my own area before and I wound up shrugging my shoulders, switching off the computer, and waking my YF who slept over the night before up so we can go get some breakfast. Things certainly aren't peachy, but things aren't as bad as so many BLs say.