"The problem comes because it is hard in modern society to build the sorts of relationships that address the needs that are met by a sexual relationship".

It is hard. Very hard. Impossible at times even. I'm not a friend-maker anymore. I have my younger cousin, then my two best friends I've known my entire life.

One best friend we have nothing in common anymore. And the other I've been in love with for.....ever?

Anyway, yeah - I just don't have time to come crawling to people for needs that can be met from one person, whom, i also don't have to come crawling too. They met me in the middle, as it should be.