That's great. I actually lived in the same building with another BL for about 6 months and it was really a blast. It was wonderful to be "out" every day and be able to share all kinds of boy related things and even to go hang out with both of our YFs. The living situation didn't work out too well for practical reasons not related to being BLs, but I wish it had, it was a great time.

Last year, I met another BL who lived nearby and we got to watch a Vienna Boys Choir concert together. Of course, as soon as I knew the VBC would be in town, I acquired the best seats in the house; so we got to sit front and center. It was wonderful, and like you said, I know some of the ones we focused on realized we were focusing on them as well.