I came across this article recently

What Women Don’t Understand About Guys by Dave Barry

available at

http://lokeidreams.blogspot.com/2010/01/what-women-dont-understand-about-guys.html

Whilst extremely funny in itself, I think it's also a good to remember that our YFs are playing the role of the guy in that scenario, whilst we are, often, the obsessing female. Don't know if that thought helps any of the rest of you, but it was good for me, having analysed comments by YFs for significance many a time...