You are not an expert. An expert would know that the anecdotal experience of one individual is of little to no value. The fact is I know over a dozen individuals who have had their lives affected greatly in a negative direction due to a lack of discretion. At least one is in prison due to false allegations resulting from it, he will be there the rest of his life.

What you are doing is the equivalent of telling people that it's ok to walk across a minefield with no map because you did it and survived. Well, newsflash, your experience is not common and many people who walk across minefields with no map of the mines get blown up. Encouraging people to do so is irresponsible on your part.