I misinterpreted your first comment, and you've put my mind at rest. Beyond that: I've been positive - you're just hearing the negative, which is a shame. To repeat: I strongly believe that we BLs can be a great blessing to our YFs, and I'm not suggesting you won't. But we do need to make sure that our relationship is because we want to glorify God in it, but that's true of everything we do. And for those of us who haven't had a YF for some time, it's VERY easy to get it wrong, so perhaps I twitch too much...

May God bless your relationship with your YF