I also found Eldad's response somewhat off-putting. You would expect that in a BL forum you would be able to speak openly about your relationships with boys without having to insert disclaimers into your post spelling out basic facts about being a BL. It's disappointing to see someone respond in a way that makes it seem like you are a ticking time bomb who needs to be restrained before he rapes a boy.

Nevertheless, I hope you'll stick around. Now that anonymous posting is allowed again, you may get more varied responses.