I thought the story of Victoria mourning for the rest of her is very romantic. It showed that she truly loved him. When he died they were already past their prime (he was losing fat she was getting fat etc.)

Anyway I don't really care if I'm somehow depriving certain boys of more "genuine" relations. I mean my yf was the only person I've met that's really been worthy. Some of the other yfs I've had were selfish little shits. And it's not like i ever get any thanks from the adults anyway.