Hi. Long time lurker first time poster. I got a bit of dilema here. Me and a boy are secretly conversing. Nothing sexual is going on but it's clear we love each other. We know the risks we are taking to be together and are afraid but we love each other too much to let go. I don't want to lose him and he doesn't want to lose me. Most days I am happy but sometimes I just think about how crazy all this is. Our plan is that when he is old enough we would be more officially together if you get my meaning. Like I said, there's nothing sexual going on at all but i'm sure I could get in massive trouble for this. I want to put the question should i be doing this but even if everyone told me no, i would still do it because i would be heartbroken and he would too if we were to separate so what do you guys have to say?