Misunderstood

Forgiven, Thanks for the advice, but I think you misunderstood my post. After reading it again myself, I can see how it could be misunderstood. My friend in the car making the comments about boys was NOT a YF, he was a man I work with. I'm not interested in him at all! I'm not gay, after all. He is a close friend with whom I spend a fair amount of time, watching movies, playing RPG and strategy board games, and of course playing multiplayer FPS computer games. I just don't want our friendship ruined by him finding out about my attraction to boys. He is the kind of man who would at best not understand it and at worst hate me for it. The point of my post was how much we have to hide our true selves from those we see everyday around us, at school, home, and work. It is easier to be gay than to be a boylover! Musings and (perhaps) pointless intellectual explorations of... ChoirBoy