who you wish to be with sexually is a choice The person to whom you are sexually attracted is *not* a choice, insofar that I never made a conscious decision to become attracted to boys. Could you choose to become attracted to boys? I don't believe that I can change my sexual attraction. Acting on my sexual urges, however, is very much my choice, and it is among the topics discussed on this board. I pray that you might continue to read this board, and post some more thoughts. Peace of Christ, Bach |