I had a male role model when I was 8 to 10 YO, and a close relitive who is gay had a male role model up untill he was in college. He had both his father (who died around the time he went to college) and a few older brothers, so what does this mean? To extend the logic of (over simplification here) "no male role model=boylover" wouldn't that mean that after the divorce boom of the 70's/80's there would be almost a whole generation of boy lovers comming up and (in my case) here already. No male role model must trigger certain biological (or spirital) factors. Everyone on the board, sound off, how many of us didn't have a male role model for at least part of our lives? What about other common threads between us. I bid you peace, asb |