I don't think there is anything wrong with dreaming, and imagining. I think that fantasy is a natural-needed release from sexual tension. (the same thing goes for masterbation) I think that it help us deal with pent up frustration and "needs" that can not (and in the case of BL's) should not be filled. As for ponorgraphy-I don't know. I have just spent some time looking on the net at porno (Hetero, Homo and the "safe" BL type) I don't think anything is wrong with it, at the sametime, I feel a sence of guilt and disassociation from God when I do see those things. This is something I haven't figured out yet, and I think its an issue that we must address, as individuals, and perhaps as a Christian Community. As for looking at boys on the street. I think that's natural too. Just be careful about how far you go with it. As a rule, I don't let myself have sexual thoughts about kids I know personally. I feel it's safer that way. I don't have many answers, and the ones I do have are generally pulled out of my butt. asb |