There are two reasons why I don't accept that boys can make a decision about being in a sexual relationship: 1. I do not think they are emotionally mature enough (at any age) to comprehend what sex means for them (espescially sex with an older man) They don't have the life experences and the technical know-how (I cant find a better word) to make those decsisons properly. 2. If I start to think that a boy CAN make these decsions, and I can go with their advances, I run the risk of personally justifing sex between myself and a boy. I can't make those justifications, because it make it easier for me to follow through. After all, EVE never thought about eating the apple until the serpent said it was OK... Peace to all of us asb |