Christian Boylove Forum

You know what I think?


Submitted by Triple Q on December 04 2000 15:40:30
In reply to Relationships submitted by Nash on December 04 2000 09:19:30

I think you live by your emotions.
Dropping everything and moving? To another state? To be with someone that you've only met on the internet?!
I can understand being lonely and needing that "human touch" but that's ridiculous.

And I have to wonder, if you do that now, how is the rest of your life any different?
It sounds to me, from what you gave us in your post, that you aren't so much running after love but running away from the life that you have.
I do not consider myself attractive so have not had any relationships. I know i have a lot of love to give someone but nobody wants it.
The problem is that no matter how far you run, you'll always carry your baggage with you. Or, like that saying from "Mad Max", "Wherever you go, there you are". You can't escape who you are...but you can CHANGE who you are.

I have a friend. When we're alone, you couldn't want a nicer friend. But, out in public, he has this macho image that he hides behind. The funny thing is that all I have to do is give him a look and he reverts back to being the "nicer friend"...even in public.
A lot of people do the same thing. They have an image that they project to the world, and the person they really are.

You come across as a loving person (or, at least, you WANT to be a loving person) but maybe it's the image you project to the world that "turns them off"?

Just rambling. If it doesn't tickle your fancy, ignore it. :)


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