says that when he was a teenager one of the things he enjoyed about the things the church youth group he was in was this; it allowed him to still mess around as a kid and didn't force him to act older than his age. I think from my own experience with boys that you need to let them be what THEY want to be; the real difference is that they are away from their parents so are leaving that baggage behind when they're with you, a not insignificant advantage that we have over their parents!! |