Re: Just one point
Submitted by Dannyboy on December 12 2000 12:08:31
In reply to Re: Just one point submitted by Heather on December 12 2000 00:02:56
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"But I've met plenty of boylovers who knew perfectly well what their AOAs were, and yet maintained deep friendships with the boys (now men) that they were no longer attracted to." My previous y/f have known each other since 1995. I was very lucky and we spent virtualy all weekends and a lot of holidays together for about four and a half years. Again I was lucky and the time he started drifting away was about the time the physical attraction I felt towards him started to decline, hence I also felt the need to move away and find another. I don't wish that to sound like my attraction was only sexual, far from it, but to remove that lonliness I am sure we are all to familiar with, we need a partner we are both physicaly and emotitionaly attracted to. I still had (and still do) have a great sence of loss over this relationship, but none the less we are still very close friends. I still sometimes get upto 3 phone calls a week and we keep in very close touch. I think we both regard each other as very special friends. I quess I will regard him as a brother (and treat him like such) for the rest of my life. Only hope the relationship with the new y/f endures as long. |
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