Seems to me the issue is not so much the seriousness of sex as it is the seriousness of consent. What is "consent"? That's what makes rape such a serious business, not that they were having sex, but that they were having sex when one of them didn't want (whether they didn't want to at the time, the worst business, or regretted it afterwards, also a tricky issue). Part of the problem in talking about the legality of sex is the confusion we have between criminality and immorality. I don't know if in some Utopian Theocracy they should be the same, but in the world where we live, we have some form of democracy, and that means that while different people will have different views on morality, we all have to live under the same set of laws. Thus, right behaviour is not identical to legal behaviour. And I could continue thinking about the morality of bad laws, but I think I've said enough for now. Fod |