Boy, you don't read too well! First of all, I was not fixiated on sex as you are. I was speaking more generally. For example, sin exists when I say in my heart that you are an asshole for not reading my post and instead just reacting to fit it into your own personal anger and pain. Although I need not say you are an ass, in my heart I have. Thus, I am sinning either way! In that moment when I think you are an ass (without your knowledge) or in the moment when I say to you, "You are an ass" (with your knowledge), I am sinning. I have broken God's second greatest commandment: "Love others as I have loved you." I also broke the greatest commandment" "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and soul." By using harsh language inwardly or outwardly, I am diving us. I am attempting to tear you down and not build you up! Since you have focussed on sex, there are similarities to the hate idea mentioned above. I choose not to give an example since hopefully you now understand that in God's eyes my thought of calling you an asshole without your knowledge is unpleasing to God just as much as my actually calling you an asshole. Get it? ~Once a Boy |