Forgiveness benefits the Forgiver (Nouwen)
Submitted by Ford Prefect on January 26 2001 20:16:35
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Daily Meditation: January 26 by Henri Nouwen; from Bread for the Journey, Harper Collins, New York, 1997 Forgiveness, the Way to Freedom To forgive another person from the heart is an act of liberation. We set that person free from the negative bonds that exist between us. We say, "I no longer hold your offense against you" But there is more. We also free ourselves from the burden of being the "offended one." As long as we do not forgive those who have wounded us, we carry them with us or, worse, pull them as a heavy load. The great temptation is to cling in anger to our enemies and then define ourselves as being offended and wounded by them. Forgiveness, therefore, liberates not only the other but also ourselves. It is the way to the freedom of the children of God. |
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