For me the female is a completely mystery; I lack any comprehension of what the average male sees in women, and so it is in that context that I seek to raise my AoA to a more acceptable age range. For those of you for whom being a BL is a 'bonus' :-) beside a more traditional pattern of attraction, I have no hesitation in commending Jules' approach as extremely wise - it just doesn't offer me anything, unfortunately. But I am very pleased to hear that it is helpful to him!! |