Re: Has the internet fed you?
Submitted by JORDAN on August 18 2001 22:32:44
In reply to Has the internet fed you? submitted by Huck Finn on August 18 2001 13:14:39
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Hey Huck, how are you? Good post dude! Hey you know, there is nothing wrong with loving boys, there is nothing immoral or ungodly about loving the company of a boy. And as far as attractions go well, I guess its just a matter of controlling those attractions. I don't believe that there is anything wrong with being attracted to boys, or anyone else for that matter but I think it's our responsiblity to take charge or our feelings and desires and as the Bible says,we must learn to control our body in a way that is Holy and honourable, not in passionate lust like the hethens who do not know God" Don't remember exactly where that is. I guess what I'm saying is, don't cut yourself up for feeling the way you do, because God loves you regardless! At the sametime, turn to him in prayer and submit your desires to him and he will help you to "keep them in check" because the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak! Trust me I know, when you see someone your attracted too, it's not always easy to avoid those lustful thoughts and desires. But so long as we keep surrendering ourselves over to God, he will help us not to "step over the mark" if you know what I mean. As someone else said, none of us is perfect, we are sinners each and everyone of us, we have all fallen short of the glory of God and we ALL have our our personal struggles, whether they be with B/L homosexuality, Alcoholism, drug dependency so on and so on, and the key to all these struggles is God! I don't really know if B/L is for me, I guess what I'm saying is that, I'm not sure if I truly am a B/L, I don't like labels. But in all honesty, I'd be lieing if I said I wasn't attracted to some boys. Lets face it, there are some pretty damn good looking kids out there, right? What I've come to believe is that, there is NOTHING WRONG with the attraction. Nothing immoral, wrong or sinful about being attracted to someone regardless, of whether or not they are a child or an adult. God doesn't condemn us for our feelings and emotions, he doesn't judge us on the basis of our feelings. But rather, upon the basis of our actions and thoughts. So really, so long as we don't over step the mark and indulge in adult-child sex, I don't believe we are doing anything wrong. Most children benifit from having a loving, caring adult in their lives, but by the same token, I believe that children DO NOT benifit from having sex with an adult. I hope all of this is making sense! Anyway, to sum it all up, don't condemn yourself for feeling the way you do, or for "stumbling" from time to time, we all do. Just pick yourself up and rely on God to help you through those tough times. And remember God loves you, no matter what! Jordan |
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