a lot of posts here seem to suggest that sexual attraction often follows genuine interest. do you find this to be true for yourself as well? i'm starting to see it more and more in my daily life, especially after reading the other replies here. the only question that remains for me (on this topic) is the issue of homosexuals who have absolutely no sexual interest in the other sex. does this mean that they are always driven by their sexual attraction first and foremost? or do they also develop a sexual interest in someone AFTER getting to know that person? but why only of the same sex? |