Hi Etenne! Nice to see you as well. I'm not sure if you were looking for me to answer whether or not I have changed my 'position' on BL. I don't really believe that one can have a position on Boy Love, since it isn't really a choice. As BLs ourselves, we don't have much of a choice but to find a way to live life within that context. For those who are not BLs you either bury your head in the sand and talk about BLs as if we are a crazy group of perverts who somehow ELECTED to be this way, or you are cautiously compassionate (in the case of many clergy, some psychological intellects and brave souls like Heather). Of course how we ACT in our lives is a choice :-) Keep in touch. You are not alone. Love, Ben |