Re: That's a really hard question
Submitted by Muradsman on January 1 2002 16:41:47
In reply to That's a really hard question submitted by Forgiven on January 1 2002 15:22:43
|
The question is hard, but the answer is easy. First of all, Biblically it is wrong for a "man to lay with a man." Leviticus 18:22 (NIV) says "Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is destestable." If you have a condordance, you can find several places where The Lord talks about male/male sex. (although it is not broken down to man/boy, one would think male/male sex is wrong regardless of age) The Bible also talks about the sin of sex outside of marriage. I think those are very good reasons to "just say no" to a physical relationship with a YF. And if God Word is not enough, the laws of most lands have much to say about the "legalities" of an adult having sex with a minor, even if it is consentual. Many times I have also heard of prison time being given for statutory rape. A very good friend of mine spent time in prison for supposedly raping a young girl. Praise God after 4 years of his 20 year sentance the guards in the prison, and the Chaplain of all people thought he was not capable of the crime. They investigated and did find out that he actually WAS given a speeding ticket almost a hundred miles from the assult at the same time the assult was taking place. He was released from prison, given a settlement, a job, and apartment, a car, and his record cleaned of the charge. He chose not to sue, just wanting all to end. The most important thing I learned in my 4 years of visiting him in prison was this. It was MUCH harder to visit him in jail than is was to say "NO" to my lustful, sinful temptations on occassion when in the company of a boy or two. I don't ever, ever want to be in the place he was in. I pray often God takes the sexual desire away...and keeps them away. I do admit, I find boys extremely attractive, exciting, and I love being with them, but not in a sexual way. I do pray you also will make the correct choice to enjoy your YF in a healthy, respectable way. God BLess, Muradsman |
Follow ups: