A few comments
Submitted by Forgiven on January 7 2002 03:02:14
In reply to Update on The New Boy submitted by Ben on January 6 2002 23:04:23
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1) I am so passionate about this kid. If only I could feel this way about women.... Ouch - all sorts of alarm bells there!! 2) How old is your girl friend's son? Any chance of having the two of them sleep over together - or indeed some other boys from church; this was my solution to the issue some years ago - it's safer for everyone, and in the end the boys from the church have become really good friends. 3) Again, the real question - what is God view of all this; is this 'made in heaven'? 4) You could do with digging into the question as to why he doesn't have any real friends of his own age group 5) And the hard one - how sexual is your appreciation of him, and how far is it non-sexual? Overall, this could be a really positive relationship - or could be a major problem. But if it is of God, and you enjoy his company for good reasons, it could be great. Here's hoping it can be a means of blessing for both of you! Looking forward to hearing more..... |
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