I guess I take for granted the fact that I am 'out' - at least within the inner circle of my family and friends - and the large number of movies which feature boys in my collection doesn't turn any heads. Aside from the uncomfortably, just hoping you're not beating yourself up for enjoying boys in movies (your original use of the word shouldn't seemed to be an appeal to the supposed breaking of a moral rule of some kind), which I would argue is not the case. Love in the Lord, J |