What I found out from the Parents.
Submitted by JackWade on January 31 2002 05:00:16
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Hi All, I just want to say a few words of my experience last weekend. I'm not sure why I'm writing this! heh! But anyway, This past weekend when I was spending time with my YF's, who are brothers, I started to have very lustful thoughts and lots of images plaque my mind. I started to get paranoid that maybe their parents were having their suspision about me. Mainly because their boys are starting to be mor affectionate towards me in front of them which is unsual for them. And just wated to note that I didn't spawn them to be like that. I feel like I show them love more than their parents do, unfortunately. This is just how I see it though. But anyway, I started thinking that maybe the parents might be having thoughts about it all. So I decided to ask them. I said, "Don't you think that it's wierd that I, being an adult male, have so much interest in your kids?" Know what they said? They looked at me with a confused but amused look and said, "Nope! Why? Should we?!" In a sarcastice type voice and body language. I simply replied, " No, It's just that I do show affection and tell them I love 'em all the time. I just wanted to make sure That you understand that your kids mean the world to me and I really appreciate the opportunity to have a stake in your boys lives like you have so graciously let me. Thank you." At that point my eyes got all red and teary! Just like a man not supposed to do! The point of my message is that I was thinking thoughts that were irrelevent to reality. Things weren't as bad as I thought. So from that discussion on I started being more relaxed and comfortable in front of them. And it's wierd but I think the kids also pick up on "Unspoken Language" just as much as adults do. |
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