Mark, I'm sure the "causes" of BL are different for different people. In my case, I do think the "Don't lust after girls" thing did play a part, but that won't make any sense to others! But, the idea that there are very early hormonal reasons does make sense as well. What matters is that everyone is different, and will remember their early formative years differently as well. So it's no good anyone trying to impose their own reasons on anyone else! I hope I wasn't doing that; I think it was just that I sensed that Splash and I have a lot of background in common. With Christian love, Jules |