Re: Your quote of research was a surprise to me
Submitted by Nate on March 11 2002 23:00:58
In reply to Your quote of research was a surprise to me submitted by Forgiven on March 8 2002 17:47:37
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Hi Forgiven, I was referring to my own deductions made from correlating the several studies that I have read about. Not really very scientific, I know. Masters and Johnson from at least 30 years ago found that as many as 9 out of 10 boys had at least one homosexual experience before they were 18. Later studies showed at least 6 of 10 boys did the same. The same studies had the bell curves for age of sexual activity starting a few years earlier for the homosexual activity vs. the hetero. So, combining that with my own personal observations and interviews, I deduced that most boys choose to start their sexual explorations with an older trusted male friend. I am beginning to believe that it would be the "natural" way for a boy to gain sexual experience in the absence of imposed cultural values. May be anyway. My af lost interest in me as I got older and was won away by some younger lads. Can't blame him, they had me going, too! It was not that I lost his special attention that hurt (as I told Dakota, I didn't really enjoy the sex anyway), but it was the way he did it - sabotaging me in relationship with others. Almost as if he took me for a threat. At one time I was convinced that he would kill me if he found me - things got that bad! Boylovers! Pay attention to how you leave it when your boys grow up! Peace, Nate |
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