Re: When is boysex okay? (in response to Nate)
Submitted by Wolfcub on March 13 2002 02:43:34
In reply to Re: When is boysex okay? (in response to Nate) submitted by Ben on March 12 2002 20:13:38
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For most of my life I never even considered being sexual with a boy. It was so foreign to my upbringing and what I knew was appropriate, it never even crossed my mind Social Construct. Boys who are NEVER told that sexuality is either right or wrong WILL express it as a natural extension of their behavior. It's a damnable societal construct that casts such a guilt-ridden auora about the whole topic. Until I was 16 and actually TOLD to be paranoid about my desires, I never considered them unusual. I even told some boys I knew (age 13-15) and they didn't think too much of it either because they were never taught to associate something like that with 'guilt'. It is only after having become a Christian that I have strong feelings against it. Again, empathically, WHY? Where does your religion dictate anything about the appropriate age at which to love someone? I'm curious if that's a decision based on your faith and personal interpretation of your religion or whether it's a construct of the 'religious context' (church affiliation in some cases) that you have placed yourself into. Honest questions. Trying not to judge- just learn. Wolfie |
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