Hello Ben, Just maybe being a loving BL is God's plan for you. Consider that you, not others, are the one to whom the Spirit whispers about your life. You'll be able to feel the gentle tugging at your heart. Trying to live someone else's life is almost always futile. Using your gifts for others to whom you feel drawn is being the likeness of God's son. He, being perfect, was drawn to all people; we, though imperfect, can still be like a broken pieces of a mirror and reflect parts of Jesus' love. Each day we get opportunities to be this reflection.....sometimes we accept the opportunities, sometimes we don't. They still keep coming. ---Ford |