Hi Huck Tough question to answer. I think the best thing you can do is stay accountable. I wqouldn't change a thing in the way the relationship is, but be careful you do not cross your own boundries. That said, be sure you have boudries set up for your protection and that of your YF. IT sounds like you used that when you had to dunk your friend instead of continue to stare at him. Interesting choice and a very effective one. That your relationship is based out of church makes this easier becuase you know your church's guidelines and you more closely tied to God's as well. If only it could be as easy for our out-of-church relationships as well. For me, at least, it's harder to keep the boundies I use with church kids and my students for boys who dont fall into those 2 categories. I have to ask myself why too. Blessings, Oliver PS: check yer mail |