Hi Huck, That is a tough situation... but I think you're doing the right thing. As long as you can resist doing something physical, and while that resistance is not coming to dominate your life over all the other aspects of love, I don't think you're hurting him. I think you're right to focus your relationship on Christ -- that won't damage it at all; Christ brings Christians closer, but in a better way -- or such is my opinion -- and by bringing JB closer to the source of all life and love, you're doing the most loving thing possible for him for now and for his whole life. I feel for the conflicts you're having... you're in my prayers. Love in Christ, ATN |