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Re: sex before marriage: What does God expect from me?


Submitted by hopesalive on 2002-07-14 03:01:37, Sunday
In reply to sex before marriage: What does God expect from me? submitted by coffee_kid on 2002-07-14 01:30:00, Sunday


You ask some hard questions. I just turned 22 and I am still a virgin too. I haven't even kissed or been on a date. Like you, people tell me that I am young and that I still have time. My question is, "Time for what?" How could my feelings ever possibly work out in a good relationship? I am not sure exactly what I want, though. It's almost like sex is just sort of a clouding over what I really need. I tend to fantasize more about just holding somebody close than having sex with them. So, I have no idea what that means.

You ask what God expects of you. For me, it seems to be something that I only see as it comes. Do you know the verse about "a lamp unto my feet?" It seems to mean that we are only given the info we need as we need it. In other words, we have to live by faith. I know that is easier said than done, espescially when everything you are seems to scream for something that the world can't accept.

If you want to e-mail me, you can. I don't think I'm super wise or anything, but if you want to talk, I am online pretty much.

hopesalive@ziplip.com


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