sex before marriage: What does God expect from me?
Submitted by coffee_kid on 2002-07-14 01:30:00, Sunday
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I have another one of those "tricky questions" for you all. The Bible says that sex outside of marriage is wrong, its sin, right? Don't ask me where it is, I haven't got a clue, but I know its in there somewhere :-) Okay, so we aren't suppose to have sex until we are married, but what if you NEVER GET MARRIED????? What is you are gay like me? Gay people can't get married, its against the law and even if it wasn't, it seems to be against God's law. At least that what it seems like although, some christians say that the Bible has been wrongly interpretated and stuff. And that God doesn't condemn homosexuality, just cult prostitution and abusive sexual relationships. Sometimes I think that God is really slack, not everyone is destind to get married. And then you have gay people who can't get married even if they want to. So what are we suppose to do, stay celebate? I'm a virgin (don't laugh!)sometimes I look at other guys and man, I just want to well, you know. And anyway, I have a right to have sex don't I? Surely, God doesn't expect me to stay a virgin forever????? He would be pretty mean if he did. I'm still young and have plenty of time (so everyone keeps telling me)but still, sometimes I just don't want to wait. If I didn't pull myself, I think I would have given into temptation by now and tried it with another guy. Getting back to my question, what does God really expect from us? Its like with B/L, sex with kids is WRONG, period! It's illegal for one thing and I can't imagine that God would accept it. So there is a problem there too. How does a B/L get over that problem? He can't have sex with kids because it's illegal and probably against God's law. He can't have sex with anyone unless he is married, because if he does, he would be sinning against God because sex outside or marriage is sin. So what do you do? How do you guys cope with this? Do you think there is room for sex with chilren in Gods "rule book" ? Do you think God accepts paedophilia or does he condemn it like he condemns homosexuality? Or do you believe that God doesn't comdemn homosexuality? I don't know what to believe sometimes, like I read the Bible and when I see the stuff in Leviticus or Romans or Cor I think that God condemns homosexuality, period! So if he condemns it then it must be wrong and shouldn't be done, right? Okay, then what are gay people meant to do then, stay virgins? Deny their sexual feelings? Maybe God didn't make me gay, maybe its because of something else, I don't really know. But the fact is, I am gay, I am attracted to other boys. I fantasise about other boys, I'm NOT turned on by girls. I can watch a straight porno and not get turned on. I can go to the beach and sit near a topless women and not get turned on. But if I watch a gay porno or sit near a shirtless guy who is really hot, my hormones go wild!!!! And I get hard, instantly! Sorry, I'm being too expressive. But you understand what I'm saying right? What does God expect from me? |
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