I can agree with this
Submitted by Dakota on 2002-09-29 13:12:43, Sunday
In reply to I mostly agree submitted by Drifter on 2002-09-26 16:23:39, Thursday
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I don't see anything wrong with doing things that pleases onesself as long as it isn't against and doesn't interfere with God's plan for that person. I guess I'm just very cautious when it comes to man/boy relationships when the man is a pedophile. For myself, I have found it very easy to believe one thing while the reality is another. For example, with one YF, I very much enjoyed holding him on my lap while we were watching TV. I told myself and believed that I was just showing the boy innocent physical affection. But as I look back on it now, I realize I wasn't doing it as much for the boy as for myself, because I craved that physical closeness. And it was, at least partially, sexual, the proof of this being that I would sometimes get an erection. So in effect, I was at least partly using the boy and playing a dangerous game of titilating myself, assuming I would be able to keep myself from going too far. So while I wouldn't say that all pedophile man/boy relationships are wrong unless mandated by God, I would strongly recommend that the man sincerely ask God if it's ok before starting any relationship. And after asking, don't forget to look for the answer. Dakota |
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