is it possible that mom knows how much u mean to d so that she knows he's gonna buck up his grades so that he CAN see you. why look at this negatively she has not singled you out, she has said he cant see ANY of his friends..not just you if she thought u were a risk to her son surely she will just come out and say it that she dont want u around him just because she might feel u spendin too much time with her son does not mean she dont want u around her son at anytime she has not yet carried out her threath....and my guess is the threath is there solely to encourage him to improve his grades and no ulterior motive to stop him from seeing you. just a few thoughts to ponder and to help allieve some the paronoia us bl's have when our relationship with our yf's is commented on by familly, friends and neighbours. oft times we read into these comments/gestures far too much and blow them up out of proportion |