... or at least not by my definition of the label BL, for what it's worth.|
To me BL means nothing more and nothing less than someone who is sexually attracted to boys. It was a label invented to try and escape of the bad connotation of the word pedophile, but that's what we (99% of the ppl who visit this site and the ones for who this site was created) are.
Eventho I'm attracted to young males (boys) I don't consider myself to be homosexual as that label is nearly always used to describe men who are attracted to other men and I'm not sexually attracted to men in the least.
So if u aren't sexually attracted to boys then I don't consider u to be a BL... be glad.
The fact that I'm sexually attracted to boys doesn't mean that I think it's ok to act out on these feelings sexualmy.