Re: Thoughts on Elekid + Pichu
Submitted by Dakota on 2002-10-31 16:41:45, Thursday
In reply to Thoughts on Elekid + Pichu submitted by Halo on 2002-10-30 05:21:04, Wednesday
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I wish I had a good answer for you, but I don't. I can only tell you how things look from what you have posted. I know you want to be a mentor and help these boys along, but I think you also have needs that you are looking to them to fill. Ginger and El have seen this and used it to manipulate you for money. This may sound harsh, but it's not much different then paying for a prostitute. They give you cuddles and you give them money. I know you want them to be affectionate because they love you, but it appears from your posts that they give you cuddles when you give them money. It's hard to be a mentor when they can sense this need in you and then use it against you. I wish I could suggest a good answer to all this, but it's a hard situation. There is nothing wrong with wanting boys to love you. I want that too, as do most of us here. But maybe you should stop spending a bunch of money on boys so you can find one who likes YOU, not your money. Dakota |
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